This past month, one of my good friends--and a co-worker--was put into the tailspin of her life. Her husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 metastatic lung cancer, a diagnosis that had been missed almost 4 years earlier. He had a chest x-ray four years ago, it was on the film, and the radiologist missed it. He was her soul-mate, and died exactly one month after diagnosis. He suffered terribly, and my friend and her boys were devastated. There will be no funeral service, but there will be a celebration of life at his request.
As I thought about what piece of jewelry that I could make, that would tell a story, I thought of my friend and her husband's request--a celebration of life! I decided that I would use mostly teardrop shapes, because tears represent most of life's challenges and celebrations! A bracelet came to life.
Each bead, with each color and shape, as well as each teardrop represent some of the best things that have ever happened to me--the births of my children and grandchildren with their birthstones, each member of my immediate family, graduations, weddings, and new and better jobs. There are also some that represent the less joyful moments, but no less memorable or defining--Breast cancer for me, lymphoma for my Mom and Dad, other family members' struggles and triumphs, and grief.
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What a happy piece! I'm sure your friend would be honoured that you remember the happy times spent around her husband.
ReplyDeleteThank you Karin! I am going to make a piece of jewelry for my friend and her boys from some of the items that he collected--a remembrance and celebration of one of the facets of his life that he so enjoyed.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great idea to use tears as part of your inspiration...the teardrop beads make for a remarkable bracelet and wonderful memories for you
ReplyDeleteTeardrops are especially fitting for me, as I cry over every little thing! Thank you!
DeleteSuch a beautiful bracelets and using the teardrops is so fitting because we cry both from sadness and happiness. Thank you for sharing.
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Thank you! After I finished my post, I thought of so many more "representations"--will probably be adding beads for some time to come!
DeleteAbsolute lovely inspirational piece.
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteWhat a lovely way to pay tribute to life's sorrows and successes.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Shai. I like the fact that I can continue to add to it and it will one day be a "memory" for my children and grandchildren.
DeleteThanx for sharing your story with us. Your bracelet idea is very clever. Like a charm bracelet only much more personal and totally fitting for a beader.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Becky!
DeleteYour bracelet is perfect!
ReplyDeleteI love your decorative tears. Whether bitter or sweet, they're part of most of our memories, aren't they? (I know I've shed a few reading everyone's stories this week-end!)
ReplyDeleteA fabulous bracelet to celebrate life!
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful sentiment and tribute to your friend.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful bracelet. Thank you for sharing your touching story.
ReplyDeletePeace and Love.
How wonderful to have all of your life's memorable moments always close to you in such a creative way. Enjoy!
ReplyDeleteVery nice :)
ReplyDeleteLove the bracelet, nice work! Blessings!
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely 'celebration of life'...and I love the symbolism of the teardrop beads!
ReplyDeleteLove how your bracelet is loaded full of meaningful memories. Happy and sad ones. Thanks so much for sharing your story. Hope you are enjoying the hop.
ReplyDeleteHugs
Terri G.
Wow Gina what a powerful design. Moving. Touching. Beautiful.
ReplyDeleteLove it! You are right tears are shed both for happiness and sadness. Wonderful bracelet design.
ReplyDeleteI agree, there are lots of happy tears too! I think your bracelet is lovely!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your friend's loss - so sorry. Your bracelet is beautiful, and you have chosen your beads (especially the shape) so wisely! Truly a keepsake!
ReplyDeleteWhat a moving tribute to your friend's husband. I think that this gentle jingling pf the charms will be a good reminder that you need to notice every moment. I wish for peace for your friend as she deals with this new reality. Thank you for sharing your story. Enjoy the day. Erin
ReplyDeleteSuch a pretty bracelet, full of so many memories for you, and a lovely remembrance of your friends husband. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI love how you honored your friend's husband and your family with the bracelet. Wonderful job!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful sentiment. That is truly celebrating life the wonderful acheivements, relationships and happiness along with all the other tears - just wonderful
ReplyDeleteThat's beautiful!
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